14-15 Feb 2020, ICC Waterfront Hall, Belfast - Using DNA to help the Family Tree Research of your Irish Ancestry
Solving Adoption Mysteries in your Family Tree
This section is relevant for two main groups of people:
- Adoptees whose birth parents are Irish
- Irish parents whose children were given up for adoption
Much of the information below is also available in a (slightly out of date) video
presentation on YouTube entitled “How to solve adoption mysteries in your Irish
Family Tree” and is available here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=in6eMV5xiX4
A brief history
Ireland has a long history of “informal” adoptions prior to
the passing of the 1952 Adoption Bill. These continued even after the passing
of the legislation and were therefore technically illegal adoptions (e.g. birth
certificates being forged to list the adoptive parents as the natural
parents). In these latter cases, and in
cases prior to 1952, there is no “Non-identifying Information” available for
adoptees and DNA may be their only recourse to help identify their birth
families.
For those adopted post-1952, “Non-identifying Information”
is available only through an intermediary such as a social worker from the
Adoption Agency that arranged the adoption (if it still exists). The Adopted
Children’s Certificate (available from 1954) is issued in place of a birth
certificate and contains a date of birth for the adoptee that is usually within
6 weeks of the actual date of birth. This can be useful for trying to identify
a potential birth mother in the Civil Birth Register at the General Registry
Office in Dublin (see the video above for further information).
Adoptees in Ireland or adopted from Ireland do not have automatic
access to their original birth certificate – the birth mother must be contacted
by the intermediary first in order to obtain her permission. If this fails,
appeals can be made to the Adoption Authority. Further information is available
here - http://www.citizensinformation.ie/en/birth_family_relationships/adoption_and_fostering/tracing_your_birth_family.html
In 2005, the Irish Government set up the National Adoption
Contact Preference Register. This allows anyone (adoptee or any biological
family member) to enter the details of any known adoption and to provide
contact details. Any new details are matched against details already in the
database and any “matches” are put in touch with each other. It is unclear how
successful this initiative has been at reuniting adoptees with their birth families.
See http://www.aai.gov.ie/index.php/tracing/contact-preference-register.html
Currently (Nov 2021), a new law entitled the Adoption Bill (Information & Tracing) 2016 is currently under review. This proposes to change the law in relation to adoption and the ISOGG Ireland group have written a Commentary on the new proposals which you can read about here.
Currently (Nov 2021), a new law entitled the Adoption Bill (Information & Tracing) 2016 is currently under review. This proposes to change the law in relation to adoption and the ISOGG Ireland group have written a Commentary on the new proposals which you can read about here.
General Approach
There are
Tracing Guides available to help Irish adoptees trace their birth families and
these can be downloaded from the website of the Adoption Rights Alliance here –
www.adoptionrightsalliance.com
Other Irish
sources of information on tracing (for adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive
parents) are available here:
Three of the most important questions facing adoptees (or biological parents of adoptees) are:
- How do I identify my birth
parents (or my adopted child)?
- How do I approach contacting
them (or their families)?
- How do I protect people from
getting hurt (including me)?
It is important to think these questions through in advance
because DNA could potentially reunite you with your birth family very quickly
indeed. What will you say to them when you find them? How will you introduce
yourself? Often such a discovery can result in very strong and mixed emotions,
and it can be very helpful to have your letters of introduction written before
undertaking DNA testing. And having a support network of family, friends, and
Search Angels ready to encourage and guide you will help maximise the chances
of a positive outcome to your research, which is what everyone wants.
This is particularly important in Ireland where the topic of
adoption can be a very sensitive matter for many people, and public opinion is
split on the right of the adoptee to know who they are and where they came from
versus the right of the mother to privacy. Sensitivity, diplomacy, and mutual
respect will go a long way toward a positive outcome for all parties concerned.
How to help a Birth
Parent find his/her Adopted Child
If you are a birth parent who gave up your child for
adoption, it is possible that they have started to search for you and may have
taken a DNA test as part of that process. Therefore it is worthwhile taking an
autosomal DNA test with all three major DNA testing companies in the hope that you
will find your child there (or indeed even one of their own children). If they
are not there, your DNA will serve as a legacy so that if, at any point in the
future, they or one of their descendants come looking for you, they will find
you.
How to help an
Adoptee find his/her Birth Father
This only works if you are man. It will not work if you are
a woman. This is because it relies on Y-DNA testing, and Y-DNA is only passed
from father to son. It is never passed from father to daughter.
So if you are a man, testing your Y-DNA will connect you
with genetic cousins with whom you share a common ancestor of your direct male
line, your father’s father’s father’s line. This is the same line down which
the surname is passed. So many matches you have on this line are likely to be
“recently related” to your biological father (i.e. within the last 1000 years)
and therefore will share his surname. (Some matches will be related to you
before the time surnames were introduced and will therefore have different surnames,
and there may also have been Non-Paternity Events in the past, which will have
resulted in matches to different surnames.)
If you are lucky, one surname among your matches will stand
out, because it occurs most frequently. Alternatively, two or three surnames
will occur with the same frequency, but at least it helps you narrow down the
options, and a certain name may tie in with what you know from your documentary
research or your non-identifying information. If you are unlucky, your Y-DNA
may be relatively rare and you may have few or no matches at all.
The overall success rate with this technique is somewhere in the order of 10% to 40%. The bottom-line is you won't know it's going to work until you try it.
The overall success rate with this technique is somewhere in the order of 10% to 40%. The bottom-line is you won't know it's going to work until you try it.
The company to test with is FamilyTreeDNA. It is probably
best to test out to at least 67 markers (the Y-DNA-67 test), but you can start
out with the 37 marker test (Y-DNA-37, $149) and upgrade it a later point in time if
need be.
This technique also works for fathers and grandfathers who
were adopted, as long as the test-taker is a man on the same direct male line
as the father or grandfather.
How to help an
Adoptee find his/her Birth Parent
If you are an adoptee (or one of your parents or
grandparents is), you should put your autosomal DNA (atDNA) in all the major DNA databases currently available, in the hope that you will find your birth parents or one
of their close relatives there.
My favoured approach (March 2018) is to do your first test with Ancestry and once you have your results, you can download a copy of them to your computer and upload them to several other databases for free, namely:
- FamilyTreeDNA ($79, about 65 euro)
- MyHeritage (£59, about 65 euro)
- LivingDNA (£120, 159 euro)
- Gedmatch (upload your results for free)
At a later stage, if you need to do confirmatory DNA testing, simply use whichever of the above tests is the cheapest at the time (the various companies have frequent sales where the price can drop to as low as $49).
If you are very lucky, your atDNA results will include a very close match and you will be reconnected with your birth family in a matter of days or weeks. My good friend Winnie had been searching for her family for 40 years. At 76 years old, she felt she was running out of time. But six weeks after doing her DNA test, she found the son of her half-sister in the database. Days later she was reconnected with four half-siblings she never knew existed. And they welcomed her into the family with open arms and warm hearts. What an incredibly precious gift. You can see Winnie’s story on YouTube.
Most people don’t have such very close matches, although clearly it is possible. It’s more likely that your closest match will be a third cousin, or if you’re fortunate, a second cousin. Both of these scenarios are good news. What then follows is a sequence of steps to figuring out who is your common ancestor (or rather your common ancestral couple – because most of the time you will share an ancestral husband and wife in common). Oftentimes, these steps are done in parallel rather than in sequence.
1. Starting with your closest match(es), get hold of their family tree. Sometimes this is already available because they have shared it publicly online, but sometimes you have to ask them for it nicely. And that means engaging them in a conversation initially and developing a trusting relationship with them over time (and by “over time” I usually mean weeks if not months). If they are a predicted second cousin, for example, then your predicted connection is somewhere at the level of their great grandparents, of which there are 4 pairs. One of these pairs will be your great grandparents too … but which pair?
2. Find other people who match you both. The chances are that these “Shared Matches” or “In Common With” matches are also descended from the same common ancestral couple (but beware of double-cousin connections – they can throw a spanner in the works). Get hold of their family trees and figure out how they are connected to your closest match. This exercise will hopefully identify a single common ancestral couple. If you are lucky, your closest match will also have other family members who have tested and who match you, and this will narrow down the connection to a single ancestral couple in their family tree.
3. Use the data from the Shared cM Project to help you create a draft family tree of how you are connected to the matches above. Be aware that this is merely a “most likely scenario” and the connection may be a generation higher than you have predicted (or even two). Keep it “Private” for now (i.e. not publicly visible) because it is largely experimental. This process involves building "mirror trees" i.e. you copy across potential relatives and ancestors from the trees of your closest matches. There are lots of tutorials online on how to do this (google them).
4. Having identified the “most likely” common ancestral couple, trace all their descendants down to the present day. If your estimations are correct, one of these descendants will be your biological father or your biological mother … but which one?
5. There are several tricks you can use to identify the most likely candidate for your biological parent:
a. If you have already identified your mother, then you know you are looking for your father and therefore you only need to identify family lines that have males of the right age to be your father
b. Look at locations. If you know where your conception is likely to have occurred, then there may be only one person from the list of descendants who was in “the right place at the right time”
c. Your ethnic makeup may give clues to the likely person (e.g. his or her mother may have been from a distinctive ethnic group, and this may be reflected in your ethnic makeup results)
d. There may also be clues from your mitochondrial DNA results and from your X-DNA results (which requires understanding the technicalities of DNA transmission)
e. Actively search for your “other grandparent”. Up until now, you have identified every descendant of a specific ancestral couple. And this process may have resulted in you identifying, say, three candidates for, say, your biological father. All three candidates will have one parent that belongs to the same family tree (i.e. all descended from the specific common ancestral couple you have previously identified). But they will also have “another parent” that has “married in” to the family in question. And each of those three “other parents” will have a completely different family tree attached to them. The trick is: can you find evidence among your other atDNA matches as to which of these three “other families” you are genetically connected to? And that means building these spouse’s trees back as well, back into the 1700s preferably. There is an extra trick if you have tested with Ancestry - you can “attach” yourself as a child to each “candidate parent” in turn. Once you hit the right one, you should see many more “DNA leafy hints” appear (on both grandparental lines) indicating that you may have found the correct “candidate parent”. It may take 24 hours for new DNA leafy hints to appear so best to attach yourself to only one “candidate” per day.
6. Armed with a theory, supported by the evidence, you approach your theoretical cousins and ask them to do a DNA test. Start with the more distant cousins and gradually work your way in towards your half-siblings. If they test positive, and support your theory, then you go for the next closest cousin and get them to test. This takes months. Finally, you bite the bullet, and approach your theoretical half-siblings and ask them to test. You can imagine how delicate this last step can be. You may benefit greatly from using an intermediary, particularly someone with professional training in reconnecting adoptees with their birth families. You usually only get one shot at this. Hence the recommendation to test the more distant cousins first – it helps you fine-tune your diplomacy, negotiation and persuading skills.
7. Take time to enjoy your new family. Make time to get to know them. Develop a concrete plan for a long term relationship with them. Don’t let it slide. This takes work.
8. Once you have identified one biological parent, you can start on the search for the other. I would often recommend waiting for at least one year before undertaking this second journey. FamilyTreeDNA have a wonderful “buckets” feature that allows you to divide your matches into Paternal and Maternal. This is helpful for eliminating those matches that are not on the side of the family of interest, thus helping you focus your attention on matches that are more likely to be connected to you via your other parent, the focus of your second journey.
That in a nutshell is the process I use. Others will have slightly different approaches or may have other hints and tips that may speed up the process.
There are a few things I have learnt through this work: the family trees on Ancestry are indispensible; so too is the ability to build trees from scratch using the records on Ancestry; first cousins are more reticent to get involved (they are too close to the supposed half-siblings in question) so it may be necessary for the adoptee to go directly to their half-siblings and “come clean”; expect surprises – they happen often, and can be emotionally overwhelming; the circumstances of the conception can be different to that expected; all adoptions are traumatic – it is never easy for a parent to give up her child; sometimes the family concerned refuses contact; sometimes the family concerned can be more helpful and more welcoming than expected.
All in all, this work is often very gratifying for all concerned and a wonderful application of genetic genealogy.
Useful resources
YouTube videos
- A step-by-step approach to analysing your autosomal DNA matches – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jtpe6u2J5ps
- Researching your Irish ancestry online & at minimal cost - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGqe4cvccNc
Records for Children in Care: pre-1952 “adoptions” –
a pdf document of a PowerPoint slideset created by Fiona Fitzsimons of Eneclann
… www.eneclann.ie/NLI-Lectures/FionaFitzsimons.pdf
Organisations that assist in tracing and connecting
Adoption Authority of
Ireland – the government-appointed body that regulates adoption in Ireland.
They have a whole section of their website devoted to tracing … http://www.aai.gov.ie/index.php/tracing/information-service.html
Council of Irish
Adoption Agencies – a forum of Irish adoption agencies with useful
information on tracing and reconnecting … http://councilofirishadoptionagencies.com/?page_id=285
Adoption Rights
Alliance – have useful tracing guides … http://www.adoptionrightsalliance.com/searchandreunion.htm
The Philomena Project
– a project set up by Philomena Lee with the ultimate goal of helping reunite
families, in particular birth mothers with their adopted children … http://thephilomenaproject.org
Tracing Living People in Ireland
Help in tracing living people in Ireland is available from
these websites:
– www.irishfamilyancestry.com/descendant-research– www.nationalarchives.gov.uk/records/looking-for-person/living-person.htm
– www.findmypast.co.uk/content/expert-living-relatives
– www.bl.uk/reshelp/findhelprestype/offpubs/electreg/traceliv/tracinglivingpeople.pdf
– www.adoptionrightsalliance.com/tracinghandbooks.htm
– www.irish-genealogy-toolkit.com/index.html
– www.ggi2013.blogspot.ie/p/finding-your-irish-ancestors-online.html
Adoption Stories – a TV series produced by Sharon
Lawless, which tells the stories of people touched by adoption in Ireland,
whether they are adoptees, birth parents, or adoptive parents. The tone of
these excellent programmes is refreshingly balanced and factual.
- Episode 1 - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alPvFymlyCI
- Episode 2 - http://youtu.be/xynDEHwUn1k
- Episode 3 - http://youtu.be/T0lMNLA0qZc
- Episode 4 - http://youtu.be/Gw8xmZJTllY
- Episode 5 - http://vimeo.com/78203108 (Alan Stanford, Irish actor, adoptee)
- Article about Sharon Lawless producer of 'Adoption Stories' http://www.iftn.ie/news/?act1=record&aid=73&rid=4285741&tpl=archnews&force=1
Long Lost Family – a TV series that helps people find
long lost family members. Most of the people searching are either adoptees or
birth parents of adoptees, and the majority of cases are British but some have
an Irish angle. Lots of emotions, lots of surprises, lots of happy endings.
There are four series so far and many of them are available on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEfSNZogk6M
Facebook Groups - general
- Adoption Support Network of Ireland – ASNI - https://www.facebook.com/groups/165837080386/
- Adoption Voices - UK & Ireland - https://www.facebook.com/groups/adopteetracinghelp/
- Adoption Rights Now 24 hour News channel - https://www.facebook.com/groups/387682087978463/
Facebook Groups – lobbying for change
A variety of groups are lobbying government for change at
both a national and European level. These activities include lobbying for the
release of original birth records, and for public enquiries into adoption
practices in Ireland in the past (e.g. Mother and Baby Homes, vaccine trials).
The following is a list of some of the organisations lobbying for change who
have a presence on Facebook (all are closed groups and you have to apply for
membership):
- Adoption Rights Alliance - https://www.facebook.com/groups/adoptionrightsalliance/
- Beyond Adoption Ireland - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1401425226786665
- Adoption Rights Now - https://www.facebook.com/groups/486967967999213/
- Adopted Illegally Ireland - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1080951042045507/
Maurice Gleeson
Sep 2014
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